The NBA is preparing to hold their Draft Pick on June 26th in New York City. Many teen guys and their dads, even some girls and their mothers, place the Draft date on their calendars in the excitement of seeing who their favorite team will be choosing. The Coaches need to select players that can help meet the needs of the entire team. In Basketball they may need to draft a ’shooter’ like Sasha Vujacic for their offensive team so they can score points. On the other hand, the coaches may decide to strategically select a defensive player like Ronny Turiaf, who can prevent the other team from scoring points.

As parents, we have the responsibility of drafting in key players in our teens lives in order to help train them to be a balanced individual with skill, character, and academic excellence. These players are designed to support the morals and high standards that God would want our children to have. Each person in the lives of our children help to form them into the adult they will some day be. Our teens thoughts, opinions, and philosophies are formed in their minds and souls by the people they are around, the books and blogs that they read, and even the music they listen to.

If Sasha Vujacic choses to fill his body with unhealthy foods, never exercise, and spend time in the bars, he isn’t going to be much good to his team members. However, if he eats right, works out each day, and spends his time wisely studying the play book, he will be more equipped when it comes to game day. We can view the moves our opponent makes, but spending too much time studying their moves and not enough time studying our own plan, we can easily become distracted from the main objective. We can learn how not to play the game, but if we invested more time in the fundamentals of the game and work hard at improving our skills and memorizing that play book, then we’ll all end up being the best player we can be.

If I tried to be a Sprittibee or a Jacque Dixon, I’ll never be any better than second best. But I can be the best Sisterlisa I can be as I spend time in my own play book. Each homeschool family has a different set of needs, goals, and desires, so some of the strategies won’t be the same. Yet, as we use the same play book, we can learn the basic fundamentals needed to insure that each of our team members gets the best guidance in making decisions for their game day.

Here are the top 5 plays our family makes in our game.

1. Pray. In order to have an open relationship with the Lord, we need to talk to Him everyday. Schedule time to pray as individuals and as a family.

2. We read the Bible. Even children as young as 3 can read the Bible. Even if they can’t pronounce words yet, they can identify letters. Each child should have a Bible reading

schedule suited to their abilities.

3. Meet with other believers. It’s important to meet regularly with other believers who will support your values and your relationship with the Lord. Some people have good solid churches they can be a member of, while others may have a small country home church. Wherever you meet with fellow believers, be faithful and help to meet the needs of the entire team.

4. Share your faith. If you don’t have a church, you can still reach souls for Christ. Many Christian book stores have Gospel tracts that you can invest in and are very affordable. Hand them out to people you come in contact with each day. The cashier at the store, the bank teller, even mailing them in when you pay bills helps to reach a lost soul.

5. Apply what we know. It’s one thing to just become knowledgeable in a subject, but it’s a whole other ball of wax to be able to apply it. We know that we should read our Bible, so be sure to read it. We know that we should go to church, so be sure to go. We need to reach the lost, so reach out. Be sure that you spend time in communication with God, and He will give you His power to live each day as a vessel that will bring Glory the Most High God.

These are the basic fundamentals that each game player should not only know how to do, but is in practice using these fundamentals each and every day. Be wise when you seek players that help you to meet these needs in the lives of your team. Be sure you’re selecting the best in the draft!

Summer is right around the corner, and gardening is getting into full swing on many homesteads, backyards and pots on porches. We started gardening a few years back, and have always included anything to do with it as learning. From planting and starting seedlings to observing the fruit of the plants to taking photos of the work and the beauty.

If you have not yet planted a garden it is still not too late. You can purchase plants already started and put them into pots or a garden spot even now. We use organic seeds and plants. I have found too many things out about eating non-organics, and, well, do your own research. Since eating organic has gained popularity, they should be rather easy to find. Organic seeds can be ordered online from reputable companies.

For us, tilling such a large plot is usually the hardest part of gardening. We did buy a nice tiller last year, so it has become less of a job, but it is so important to get the ground ready so that the roots can grow deep. If your garden is small, a rake and a hoe will do the job just fine. We found some pretty nifty tools at Tractor Supply last week that are claws on the front and hoes on the backside. They are also extendable, so any of us can use them.

One thing to keep in mind is that many plants in a garden are direct-seeded, meaning that you don’t have to start them from a plant. You will want to direct-seed lettuce, spinach, corn, squash, beans, lima beans, carrots, cucumbers, and zucchini(I know that’s a squash too, but I love it!).

Vegetables that you will want to purchase as plants are: tomatoes, eggplant, peppers, broccoli, cauliflower, brussel sprouts, and onion sets. We did potatoes last year, and they are so easy.

I was asked last year where to get some Heirloom Seeds from. Here is my experience from the past year or so…. We use organic and Heirloom seeds, so I thought I would give you some links.

We order many of our organic seeds from Seeds of Change out of NM. My Dad ordered ours and his. He ordered from them, because they are solely organic and he wanted to support solely organic growers. He also bought some organic seeds at Lowe’s from Ferry Morse.

Gardens Alive! has organic seeds and chemical-free insecticides, fertilizers and such. We ordered through them last year, and I was happy with them. You could also look at Baker Creek Heirloom Seeds Co. Underwood Gardens has hard-to-find, open’pollinated and heirloom seeds. They also have a safe seed pledge not to knowingly sell chemically-engineered seeds, etc.

Children love to play in the dirt, so planting a garden is an easy one to get them involved in. what aplace to teach your children the beauty and omnipotence of God’s creation. If you are interested in ways to use gardening as a unit study, I posted about it: Gardening 101 - You *Can* Teach Your Children!!

An excellent resource I have found for gardening that is easy to read for adults and children alike is Square-Foot Gardening by Mel Bartholomew.

Contests:

For a May Contest: This month’s contest is geared towards the kids; however, anyone can take part!! The last day to enter is May 31st. To participate, find the very close up pictures on the blog and figure out what they are. On May 31st, email the answers to us at contests@centurytel.net. The prize is Volume 1 of Patch the Pirate’s Story & Song Treasure Box. The winner will be drawn from all correct entries on June 2nd. Complete rules (and a better explanation) can be found at There Is A Season.

Ok, I really don’t *want* to share this, but for all of you mommas who have Littles 4 or 5 and under… here is a contest you do not want to miss: Win the Ergo Baby Carrier of your choice in our Spring 2008 Contest! No purchase necessary to enter & win! Just CLICK HERE to enter by midnight on May 30, 2008. Winner of the free Ergo Baby Carrier will be picked at random from all correct entries.

Don’t forget that my sweet graduating daughter, Miss Amanda Dixon, is hosting a fun giveaway for homeschool Seniors class of 2008! She is giving away some class of 2008 t shirts from The Homeschool Boutique! Be sure to swing over and check it out.

So there…. you still have a few days to enter these contests. Go check them out!

Carnivals for this week:

Carnival Of Homeschooling #126: End of the School Year? Or Is It? at Walking Therein. Come on over and join me!

The Homesteading Carnival is up ap Grandma Rosie’s Texas home. Take a look at the 51st Homesteading Carnival ……..Summers on it’s way.

That is all for this Memo Monday! Have a fabulous week, and get out and get dirty with your children this summer!

On Mother’s Day this year, a dear friend’s father was taken up to be with Jesus. He left behind a loving and Godly wife, 4 beautiful and loving daughters, and a loving son on earth. I heard about the accident the day after it happened, but when I heard about it my heart broke and I wept for them! I have really never had to go through the trauma of losing a loved one, Thank God! But my heart is really breaking for my dear friends.

During this time of grieving, I have been researching sorrow and joy in the Bible. One that really is comforting in this time is:

Psalm 30:5
For his anger endureth but a moment; in his favour is life: weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.

One of my favorite worship songs is Trading My Sorrows. It is such a comforting thought to know that though we walk through the valley of the shadow of death, we can fear no evil because Jesus is there. It is so great to rely on the fact that though we walk through the valley at night, that joy comes in the morning!

Another verse that reminds me that sorrow does not last forever is:

John 16:22
And ye now therefore have sorrow: but I will see you again, and your heart shall rejoice, and your joy no man taketh from you.

It is so relieving to know that when our joy does come, NO ONE can take it from us! A lot of the time we overlook joy in our lives. I think we worry too much on things that are a burden and we simply take the joy out of our lives. When we do that, it is a sorrowful place, because it is almost as though we have taken Jesus out. Jesus is Joy!

Finally, what joy we can have in knowing that:

Revelation 21:4
God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.

Oh what a day of joy that will be! No more sorrow, no more death! I am anxiously awaiting that day, because sorrow takes a lot out of you! I am so happy for my friends because when that day comes, they will be able to see their “daddy-pops” again!

Remember this week as you go along your life, that though there may be sorrow in your life, that it only lasts for a season, and then the joy comes!

Please remember to pray for my dear friends. They are hurting, I know and would really appreciate your prayers. Nothing will take away the pain they are feeling but Jesus. Let’s cry out to Jesus for them!

Love you, Mrs. L, Sandy, Celeste, Jordan and Sarah! HUGS!

Also, remember the Steven Curtis Chapman family. The family lost their youngest daughter when the oldest brother hit her with their suv. Please please pray for them! What a sad loss this is, especially for the oldest brother.

Prayers and Blessings,

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